There are many stresses and things that could go wrong being
an athlete. The biggest thing for me is the time management. I have practices
every day along with the homework and family priorities. I often find myself
very busy with little free time to relax or do activities. This is the worst
during the busiest part of school season and the busiest part of club season
when we are gone for days at a time. When you miss school, you have to do all
the make-up work along with all the current work. It can get very tiring and
annoying. Also, it is VERY hard not to get distracted by your phone or other
devices, especially after a game day or tournament, when you want to check what
people said about the game.
Another stressful thing about playing a sport is being frustrated
about being in a rough patch. Sometimes, when you are working at things and
trying to get better, you feel like you're getting worse before you get better.
There are a lot of failures before success, but eventually you get it. Also,
people get frustrated when they are not doing so well in practice or in a game.
In volleyball this is easy to do, and because so much of the game is mental,
one mistake could affect the next play and sometimes the one after that if you
get mad, upset, or let it bother you. We just have to remember that it is okay
to make mistakes and that you learn from them.
Another problem with some athletes is getting tired of your
sport. If someone is constantly practicing and playing with no breaks, they
might get burnt out and not enjoy playing or not want to play anymore. This is
probably more likely to happen if the practices seem repetitive, like they're
doing the same things all the time in practice. Some people will get burnt out,
but some who really enjoy the game won't. It just depends on the person. Some
ways to prevent this from happening is to take a break from it, or in your free
time do things non-sports related, so you're not always thinking about it and
you're not always with the same people all the time. Sometimes it's not always
the sport you get tired of, but the people.
In sports, it's important to have good team chemistry. It is
important for the team to get along so they can play well together, and when
they don't it can be frustrating. That is another tough thing about playing
sports; getting along with your teammates and how to deal with it if you don't.
When people don't get along or if players have bad attitudes it can affect the
whole team, even if it is just a couple people from the team because it can make
the game not fun to play.
All these things are very hard to deal with, but as athletes
we have to push through it because that is what happens in sports, and if you
love the sport enough it won't matter what you have to deal with to play it.